I think there's room for regulation and forced audits. The important part is that the compliance costs are small compared to development and production costs. That's true in the car industry unless you have really low volume, while airplanes are pushed over the threshold by much lower volume and much higher regulation.
Meanwhile, i don't think i should have to ask permission from the government to make something like, e.g. a map editing tool for a 90s fps, like i did yesterday[0] (the tool, not requesting permission) or a sprite editor[1] or a quick-and-dirty wiki server to take notes in games[2]. Or really anything that doesn't have to do with areas where lives are at stake (which AFAIK is already being done anyway with programs needing to pass conformance tests - something i'm perfectly fine with, at least in theory, as i don't know in practice if these tests really work or are designed to help existing actors stay entrenched).
[0] http://runtimeterror.com/tools/chasmfe/
And again, the original comment above is not "ask permission from the government" but instead "pass independent security audits by neutral auditors before exposing your software to the general public."
> independent security audits paid with public money
The "with public money" part means they are funded and thus controlled by the government.
Not that i think a privately owned megacorp is much better, after all i do not like the scare boxes you see on unsigned (and "lesser signed") programs in Windows and macOS unless you pay the certificate mafia protection money - but at least those do not block you completely.