>The problem for us seems to be cultural, we consider public transit to be a form a welfare rather than actual public infrastructure.

This is true practically everywhere bar a few select cities and megapolises. Doubly so if you have to get on at a stop which is dirty, dark and crowded. General exceptions include lack of parking and knowing you'll drink at the venue.

The Dutch ain't doing it because Utrecht Central looks swell with all the cigarette butts everywhere.