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Re:How to Travel: On the cheap, like a local, and without a ... by elif on Monday October 17, 2022 @10:13AM (#33233753)
>He really does want to create relationships with the people in the places that he visits.

i really appreciate that idea as well.

that's why I read the article, seeking ways i could develop more relationships with locals. only, I couldn't appreciate any single piece of advice. I've been to soccer matches and museums and bars, none of them led me to local parties, invitations dinner, sailboat excursions, etc.s

for instance i can come up with a few from my experiences:

- Hitchhike, even when you have money and there is a bus route, is a great way to make an excuse to have a long conversation with a local. It also allows them the opportunity to feel like they're a good person doing a good thing.

- if exploring and you think someone is curious about you, don't keep just walking. take a seat, exaggerate how hot you feel, etc. and often that person will approach and offer you tea or water.

- look for local conventions or clubs that are meeting, and spend a few days learning that subculture and attend as a novice. even if its a totally new field for you, people love evangelizing to newbies at conventions.

Re:How to Travel: On the cheap, like a local, and without a ... by localhost on Monday October 17, 2022 @10:32AM (#33234013)
I've wondered how he does this too. He alludes to it "go back to the same place every day for weeks at a time". But he doesn't really go beyond this. I need to remember to ask for an article that goes into more detail about his approach. It could be that he's just very gregarious with strangers - don't really know.