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Re:Why you should never pay for online dating (OkCupid) (2010) by narrator on Tuesday October 11, 2022 @12:21PM (#33165282)
It's a first principal in liberal ideology that all races and genders are equally attractive , intelligent, and are equal in any other positive attribute imaginable and only differ in skin color and gender identity. Further, all people are roughly equal in all characteristics and the only thing that differentiates them is upbringing, access to opportunity and systemic discrimination toward or against them.

No amount of empirical data matters because it is a first principal which the whole rest of the political ideology relies upon. If someone does not accept this as a first principal and is willing to examine empirical data that contradicts it and draw the conclusion that all people are not equal, then they are no longer a liberal.

Re:Why you should never pay for online dating (OkCupid) (2010) by pfisherman on Tuesday October 11, 2022 @12:47PM (#33165603)
That’s not it at all. What people are saying is that attractiveness is subjective, and nobody’s preferences are more or less valid than others’. Where people get into trouble is when they start making blanket statement that the world does / should operate according to their preferences, at which point people who prefer differently start rolling their eyes.

It’s not acknowledging differences that are the problem. It is things like the assignment of value judgements and other stuff that people erroneously attribute to those differences.