Really not sure when it happened, but you're right, women on dating apps now have insanely high standards. I used dating apps around 2013, had honestly some pretty lame photos and not much of a profile, and consistently went on dates with very attractive women. Trying again now, in 2022, with much better photos, and much more to say - I almost literally cannot get a date. The amount of times women have set up dates with me, only to bail or simply wordlessly unmatch at the last minute, is staggering. These are women that frankly I mostly wouldn't even bother to approach in real life. My guess is that, as online dating has become socially acceptable, the scene is flooded with men who are of course happy to pursue anyone with a decent level of attractiveness. Women are swimming in a sea of positive attention. Their options are nearly infinite. I feel horrible for the future generations of young men.