Warning, NOT SAFE FOR WORK:
For context here's the sex scenes in question: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p6wqunhUVWo
(I checked the guidelines, it doesn't mention anything adult related. Hence that should be okay here.)
Judge for yourself.
Both of these are completely misguided (IMO) moral policing and disempowering of the population. Both say: people are not capable of making a sound moral choice on their own, they must be protected from seeing things that could negatively influence their character.
That being said, if I were to pick between these two bad policies, I personally think sex is a vastly less morally objectionable topic. On one hand you have an activity that (between consenting people) is pleasurable and is essential in propagating the species, while the other is generally undesirable to everyone involved.
This of course has a rather obvious explanation, but HN prohibits mentioning it for political reasons.
A movie full of violence won't sell as well in Germany. It isn't want Germans want to go see. Vice versa for Americans and sex.
Culture dictates what kind of media is desirable, not the other way around.
Again, the cultural aspect is core to the entire thing, but nevertheless the overarching theme is that both countries apply a sort of self censorship.
Every country has something that rates or censors entertainment for popular consumption. Some are overbearing or carry criminal offenses (Iran, Russia) and some are more off economic (store wont sell your game).
Germany became strongly anti-violence after WWII cause the normalization of violence in that period and level of it was extraordinary high in Germany.
My favorite example is the movie "The Fabulous Destiny of Amélie Poulain" (which btw is awesome). It has an "FSK 6" rating in Germany, which means it is free to watch for children six years or older. In the US it is R rated, which means children unter 17 have to be accompanied by an adult to watch the movie. The reason for the R rating is that one of the characters, Nino, is working in a sex shop, and in one scene Amelie enters the shop and you can see Nino applying price stickers on adult toys, which in the US seems to be dangerous to the soul of teenagers, while Europeans would not even think about this for a moment.