Python is the traditional scripting language for high-performance computing (HPC) going back a very long time, as a wrapper for highly optimized and scalable C libraries. Python on supercomputers wasn't originally used for machine learning but it naturally included support for excellent linear algebra libraries, etc for various types of large-scale modeling. When machine learning first became trendy, data scientists that wanted access to mature library implementations of critical algorithms that worked very well at large scales were mostly limited to C/C++ or Python wrappers of that C/C++. Naturally, they chose Python for the same reason Python was already being used in HPC -- ease of use.
By virtue of its use in supercomputing, Python had uniquely strong support for many types of machine learning before there was a demand for machine learning. If HPC had used some other popular scripting language instead of Python, we'd probably be using that for machine learning right now.
We are doing L4, so if something goes wrong, the manufacturer is responsible. Once we were in a test car. It was behaving great. At one point, the car "makes the decision" to accelerate and pass. The manager to which we were showing asks "we did the car not waited a little bit? can we change that behavior?". A very long discussion ensued, about data sets, labeling, training... long story short: we have to be able to change behavior (even for perception) in a deterministic way. So the amount of NNs went down dramatically after that.
Even if the given reason is simple, like "I decided to slow down because the car in front of me is red", explicit override of the learned rule ("don't slow down when you see red cars") might potentially increase the chance of the accident by a lot more than 0.0002% because we are messing with the model decision making process.
What's the alternative for quick ML prototyping?
Java/Scala I've also seen, specifically things around Spark ML, and Spark compute.
That said, Python is definitely the most common nowadays I'd say.