I have three kids. The eldest is 15. I’ve never owned a car. I probably never will.
For short stuff, bakfiets. For the second part, sure, why not? Get a baby buggy for multiple kids.
Walking is also good for you.
Also, is all of this happening as a single parent? How many single parents with 3 kids are even out there? 0.00001% of the population?
All these problems are solvable. With probably less than half the money spent on car infrastructure and 5% the pollution.
Why does it matter how many parents? One could be away or working and the other has to go 5 miles to Costco or whatever. Your little bike things don’t work. Also there are lots of single parents with 3+ kids.
I don’t want your terrible solution or way of life. I like having a large home with a large lawn and a large SUV to drive my family where we want when we want. I take trains and walk too and use strollers of course. But that’s like 20% of the time. Your comment reads like a person who doesn’t have kids.
A home with space and a nice sized yard and an automobile to travel around in is great. It's nice to have a local train too to get into the adjacent metropolis, etc.