> I do believe hate speech is illegal already.

Not in the USA, no.

https://www.popehat.com/2015/05/19/how-to-spot-and-critique-...

> Certainly online harassment leading to someone committing suicide is.

Harassment can be, but here "harassment" means making threats of violence, not just criticizing someone. That falls under "true threats":

https://mtsu.edu/first-amendment/article/1025/true-threats

Note that the older "fighting words" doctrine is probably obsolete and even then only applies to face-to-face conversation. For more on that see the prior link to Popehat.

Neither of those things are illegal in the US.

>Certainly online harassment leading to someone committing suicide is.

Documenting people's lives is not harassment.

It most definitely can be.

To have all of your privacy taken away from you.

Which jurisdiction are you speaking about? Do you have legal qualifications to dispense this advice?

The US is rather unique in their absolutist view of free speech and other countries don't work the same way. Generally, for example, this would be a violation of UK law.