Not OOP, but to me the problem isn't that women have it easy. That's a short sighted take by people that don't understand. Women just have more opportunity for physical contact. Obviously this doesn't satisfy the need for emotional intimacy. But to men who haven't had physical or emotional intimacy in a long time, it's easy to think they have it good because at least they can find someone to lie to them and say they care about them for one night. Part of the problem is these slight differences make it hard to empathize with each other