For me I find it helpful being in an office as at home by myself it's way too easy to get sucked into the rabbit hole of YouTube or the Productivity Porn on Hacker News. For me it helps feeling like I'm part of a team and I don't want to let my team down.
I’m sure, for some cohorts, they must be in the office to deliver. For many others, this is simply not the case.
I feel really irritated when I see them blaming a flexible work environment for the same problem they had before, and asking for the entire workforce to be subject to restrictive conditions so they can have an ineffective incentive to stand up for themselves.
There are many ways to form productive habits at home; for example, remote conference rooms that people can jump in and out of. Slack even has "huddles" now which are very useful for remote work.
Letting your team down has nothing to do with being a seat-warmer in the office.
> Sounds like you have poor self-control. I've been working from home for 6-years and never once had this problem.
Sounds like you have a bad attitude. It's not a good to respond to someone who shares their personal experience with a drive-by judgement that they must be the problem because you think it works for you.
But you seem to be assuming that what is better for you must also be better for everyone else, and that's not necessarily the case.
What's not reasonable in general is to expect others to come into the office to motivate you/socialize with/etc. if they don't have to.
In general, it's reasonable to expect to have some non-home place to work at (whether a conventional office or coworking space). What's not as reasonable is to expect a before-times office where everyone comes in every day.
Some people have trouble working from home and need a bit of social pressure to get things going. I personally prefer cafes or coworking spaces over a mandatory office, but that's me. I have faith that people will find what works for them and gravitate towards the opportunities that work well with their skills and personality.
But telling me that my preferred way of working is "not best" for my mental well being is just annoying. Or telling me that I actually must not like WFH, and I just am not conscious of it or haven't acknowledged it yet is just... No.
I think I am uniquely qualified to judge what is or is not good for my own mental well being, my own productivity, etc.
It is very much possible to waste time at work, get involved with various "initiatives", create all the right noises, and be seen as one of the team while not actually contributing to anything productive.
https://www.tiktok.com/@masood_boomgaard/video/7097513012117...
> Presumably the author's job mostly involves licking boots, because that's the only way this sentence makes any goddamn sense.
I read that as having more discipline to guard your personal time and prevent work from spilling over into it.
One of my biggest observations from WFH is it's A LOT easier to work overtime without even realizing it. At home it's SOOO much easier to just stay on a little longer to "finish up," plus you don't have as many cues in your environment that the work day is ending.
On the other hand that could easily be solved by all being in a long group call / chat. But if your coworkers only know email and telephone, then good luck.
It's a different thing if you e.g. plan 1 hour in the middle of the day to go for a walk.