Write a note to your spouse every day

Re:Write a note to your spouse every day by bergenty on Tuesday August 09, 2022 @03:25AM (#32395116)

I guess I just don’t care about any of this. I can tell if my wife (or girlfriend) loves me or not based on body language and actions. These sorts of things have no significance to me, words mean very little. I’m all about action— body language, your tone when speaking, a respectful demeanor, being gracious and pleasant, smiling a lot, keeping the peace - are the only things that matter in my opinion.

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Re:Write a note to your spouse every day by newshorts on Tuesday August 09, 2022 @06:42AM (#32396131)

My wife is the same way. Words mean little, actions are her love language.

Words are mine. My assumption is everyone means what they say. I tend to take things too literally sometimes.

It’s been hard to figure that out about each other, but once we did it’s been easier to translate our love into the language of the other person.

My point here is that people have differences in the way they operate and some day you might find the love of your life operates differently too. Keep an open mind about it and seek to understand.

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Re:Write a note to your spouse every day by darkerside on Tuesday August 09, 2022 @06:57AM (#32396224)

I wonder if your significant other feels the same way?

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