Re:Ask HN: Have you ever had a changed-your-life moment?
by atomkirk on Wednesday July 27, 2022 @08:15AM
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Two years into marriage I was driving down the freeway and had an epiphany that my wife loved me even though she didnt show it. We went from verge of divorce to strongest marriage I know 10 years and 3 kids later.
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Re:Ask HN: Have you ever had a changed-your-life moment?
by Dracophoenix on Wednesday July 27, 2022 @11:21AM
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Was that an epiphany or wishful thinking that coincidently bore fruit?
Re:Ask HN: Have you ever had a changed-your-life moment?
by AnimalMuppet on Wednesday July 27, 2022 @11:58AM
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People show love in different ways. (There's a book called "The 5 Love Languages"; even if you don't buy the details of the book, the idea is likely correct.)
If your spouse shows love in a different way than the way you expect to receive love, that can be confusing. Figuring this out is a big part of making relationships work.