It’s not that you “deserve it”… it’s more like having an electric fence, the non lethal kind used by farmers all around the world to stop various livestock from knocking over fences in an attempt to eat the grass or mate with the animals in the next field over. It’s a strong discouragement. It’s unpleasant enough that collectively everyone just avoids it, why put yourself through the pain to do it that way when there’s another way to get it done that’s not going to hurt.