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Re:U.S. transition to 988 suicide and crisis lifeline begins... by TexanFeller on Saturday July 16, 2022 @03:59PM (#32121408)
I’ve heard people advise not to call such hotlines because their intervention is not limited to just talking to you. It’s said they often cal the police who stop you by force and often make your life even worse than it was.
Re:U.S. transition to 988 suicide and crisis lifeline begins... by autoexec on Saturday July 16, 2022 @04:33PM (#32121693)
I also wonder what the impacts of having "Placed calls to the suicide hotline" in your permanent record will be on people's lives if they do choose not to take it.

With the state collecting that data, your phone company collecting that data, your cell phone OS collecting that data, random apps collecting that data, and who knows who is on the other end of that call and what they're doing with your data.

Will you be turned down for jobs because when a company has a choice between two equal job candidates and one of them has shown suicidal tendencies at any point why should they risk that their employee will kill himself and lose money on re-hiring/re-training?

Will your health insurance company buy that data? Your life insurance company?

Could you lose your right to own a firearm?

Can it cost you custody of your children?

Will it end up leaked or "lost" on a USB drive and find itself on the internet?

Re:U.S. transition to 988 suicide and crisis lifeline begins... by PragmaticPulp on Saturday July 16, 2022 @04:53PM (#32121860)
Practically speaking, none of these things will happen.

This is actually one of the big hurdles to getting some people into therapy/treatment/medication that they need: They imagine a lot of catastrophic scenarios about what could possibly happen if they get the help they need, which creates a gridlock that traps them in their situation.

From a pure risk management perspective, the highest risk by far in these scenarios is failing to accept help that could improve the underlying problems. If someone reaches the point of considering suicide, it doesn't make sense to refuse help due to hypothetical fears about some future job obtaining phone records and declining someone for a job (which isn't a thing that happens, BTW).

Don't let fear of far-reaching hypotheticals get in the way of making progress on mental health.

Re:U.S. transition to 988 suicide and crisis lifeline begins... by autoexec on Saturday July 16, 2022 @05:03PM (#32121941)
> Practically speaking, none of these things will happen.

Practically speaking, these kinds of things are happening every day. I would agree that it might be better to take the help and live accepting the lifelong consequences of your actions in seeking that help. A life where you lose your children, lose job offers, or have your deepest troubles exposed to the world might easily still be a life worth living.

The reality is that we've created and enabled a system that hurts people. Our communications are logged forever and we have no power to limit the ways that data can be used against us. It's only natural for people to take that into account before doing something that makes them so very vulnerable.

Re:U.S. transition to 988 suicide and crisis lifeline begins... by dntrkv on Sunday July 17, 2022 @12:00AM (#32124378)
How will you lose your children? How will you lose job offers? Children aren’t even taken away where there is known abuse going on. Lose job offers? How would a company even know you were seeking help?
Re:U.S. transition to 988 suicide and crisis lifeline begins... by edub on Monday July 18, 2022 @05:06PM (#32143719)
Re:U.S. transition to 988 suicide and crisis lifeline begins... by autoexec on Sunday July 17, 2022 @01:04AM (#32124616)
you lose your children when in the middle a custody battle your partner (or ex-partner) subpoenas your phone records, or even your medical records, and uses that to help convince a judge that you're unfit due to your mental health issues and that those issues will have an impact on your child. (see https://dadsdivorce.com/articles/parents-mental-illness-chil...). The stigma that exists surrounding mental illness makes losing your child far too easy.

How would you lose a job? Your would-be employer faced with two otherwise equally qualified candidates pays a third party to run a background check that includes information lifted from your social media sites (https://www.careerbuilder.com/advice/social-media-survey-201...) and collected from data brokers.

> Data brokers will often combine all the information outlined in these two lists to build complex profiles about each of us. These profiles are used for an increasing number of purposes, from serving targeted advertising to crafting insurance policies to providing background checks for employers. (source: https://www.digitaltrends.com/web/its-a-data-brokers-world-a...).

The FTC has warned about this kind of thing (https://www.nydailynews.com/sdut-ftc-puts-background-check-s...) but it still happens.

Maybe you called the suicide hotline using your cell phone and some sketchy app (like a call blocking app or facebook: https://www.theverge.com/2018/3/25/17160944/facebook-call-hi... or even a stalker app: https://news.softpedia.com/news/stalker-android-apps-with-th...) sold your contacts/call history or maybe your phone company did it. See this example from the article here: https://arstechnica.com/tech-policy/2013/12/att-accused-of-v...

> "[T]he sale of CPNI to the government isn’t our only concern—when we did a little more poking around, we found that all four major mobile carriers (AT&T, Sprint, T-Mobile, and Verizon) have privacy policies that indicate they believe it is OK to sell or share similar records to anyone,"

It's not really a question of "how is anyone going to know?". Every communication you make is logged forever and shared (read: sold) with "partners" and turned over to the state. Someone, somewhere, will absolutely have that data. You aren't allowed to know who has it, where they got it, how accurate it is, what they are doing with it, or how/if it's being secured, but it is out there and it will follow you for the rest of your life.

Re:U.S. transition to 988 suicide and crisis lifeline begins... by KennyBlanken on Saturday July 16, 2022 @05:53PM (#32122313)
What "far reaching hypotheticals"?

https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=32122139

I've heard over and over horror stories along those lines. Someone having a mental health crisis calls emergency services for help (and absolute best case scenario they get a very expensive taxi ride to the ER) or goes to the ER themselves. The ER pumps them full of drugs or just locks them in what amounts to a prison, does nothing to treat people or connect them with services but charge tens of thousands of dollars, leaving people in the same spot they were in before but with mountains of medical debt.

Or, someone is honest with their therapist, the therapist prioritizes not getting hit with a malpractice lawsuit so they report their patient to the police, and...see above, except worse, because the patient isn't expecting it nor did they consent to such a sudden and drastic intervention.

Re:U.S. transition to 988 suicide and crisis lifeline begins... by WebbWeaver on Saturday July 16, 2022 @08:51PM (#32123359)
You are 100% wrong. The current infrastructure only exists to reduce liability (hr ect) and nothing more. It could be subsidized to prevent poor outcomes but I'm honestly afraid of the lobbying against it.
Re:U.S. transition to 988 suicide and crisis lifeline begins... by kanbara on Saturday July 16, 2022 @05:56PM (#32122332)
if you are suicidal or have mental health issues you absolutely should not be able to go out and buy a gun until a mental evaluation takes place.
Re:U.S. transition to 988 suicide and crisis lifeline begins... by autoexec on Saturday July 16, 2022 @08:25PM (#32123216)
Lots of people feel the way you do, and that kind of thinking is one reason why someone might hesitate to have that black mark on their record for the rest of their lives.

If we want people to get help we need to think very carefully about what getting help will cost them, because the higher that cost is the more people there will be who are unable or unwilling to afford it.

Re:U.S. transition to 988 suicide and crisis lifeline begins... by xwdv on Saturday July 16, 2022 @07:18PM (#32122837)
Absolutely those things can happen, and they should.

For example, imagine if an airplane pilot or anyone in a position of being responsible for a mass number of lives has previously called into suicide hotlines.

Would you feel secure knowing the pilot of your plane once exhibited suicidal tendencies? I doubt it.

Any bits of data we can collect to make accurate assessments should be collected.

Re:U.S. transition to 988 suicide and crisis lifeline begins... by autoexec on Saturday July 16, 2022 @08:38PM (#32123288)
> Any bits of data we can collect to make accurate assessments should be collected.

This is the kind of thinking that got us into this mess. The data being collected may not be accurate, may not be interpreted correctly, and may not even be useful, but fearful people like you will happily use it for a tiny sliver of peace of mind.

Lets say the pilot on your next flight did call the suicide hotline 15 years ago after his wife and child were killed in a car wreak. Would that make him more likely to be a danger for you today than the pilot on your last flight who was currently suicidal but never called the hotline?

Lets say the pilot on your flight wasn't just going through a rough time 15 years ago, but was actively feeling suicidal on the day of your flight. Is it more likely that he would also be a mass murder who wanted to kill everyone on the plane, or is is more likely that he would kill himself later that day while alone in a hotel room at your destination city?

Thoughtcrime is a dangerous thing and our algorithms aren't so good at predicting human behavior that we should support handing out extrajudicial punishments to people based on what they might do. Those are things you should fear far more than what the mental health history of your pilot might suggest.

Re:U.S. transition to 988 suicide and crisis lifeline begins... by everfree on Saturday July 16, 2022 @07:58PM (#32123063)
> Would you feel secure knowing the pilot of your plane once exhibited suicidal tendencies? I doubt it.

I really don't care, to be honest. As long as the problem has been fixed through major changes to lifestyle and/or medication, plus enough time has passed to ensure that the person is stable, the fact that they once called a hotline is irrelevant.

I might not be as vehemently against the collection of this data if there were a strict retention limit written into law, perhaps 3-5 years, alongside a solid plan to properly enforce that limit and to keep records confidential.

As written, your comment implies that people can never change and situations can never improve. People regularly change their lives drastically, especially young adults whose brains are not even fully done developing.

> Any bits of data we can collect to make accurate assessments should be collected.

I doubt that the fact that someone called into a hotline twenty years ago would allow anyone to make an accurate assessment as to their fitness to fly today. It would likely be used as a tool of oppression, and it would make people think twice before choosing to risk their future career prospects by calling into the hotline in the first place.

Permanently barring hotline callers from becoming pilots makes about the same amount of sense as permanently barring people who have ever had a broken arm from becoming pilots.

Re:U.S. transition to 988 suicide and crisis lifeline begins... by xwdv on Sunday July 17, 2022 @03:10PM (#32130065)
You seem strangely empathetic. Perhaps you have made calls to these hotlines or wrestled with complex emotions as well.
Re:U.S. transition to 988 suicide and crisis lifeline begins... by everfree on Sunday July 17, 2022 @06:05PM (#32131877)
This is the first time anyone has called it "strange" that I am an empathetic person. Perhaps many people have not gone through (and recovered from) enough hardship to properly develop their sense of empathy like I have.

Better bar me from becoming a pilot, quick.

Re:U.S. transition to 988 suicide and crisis lifeline begins... by zahma on Saturday July 16, 2022 @07:50PM (#32123017)
This isn't a reasonable blanket policy. While I definitely would feel encouraged knowing my pilot has not displayed suicidal ideation, I do not support tracking writ large.

For example, resident physicians are known for being pushed to work 80+ hour weeks. Would any of them ever officially admit to having mental health issues? Hell no, and that's a problem from an ethics perspective and a declining level of healthcare, not to mention tragically ironic to boot.

Re:U.S. transition to 988 suicide and crisis lifeline begins... by marssaxman on Saturday July 16, 2022 @11:25PM (#32124220)
Imagine if an airline pilot or anyone in a position of being responsible for a mass number of lives has felt suicidal and considered calling into a suicide hotline.

Would they feel secure knowing their call will create a permanent record of suicidal tendencies, limiting their career for years to come? I doubt it.

Any bits of data we collect to make accurate assessments will encourage suffering people to withdraw further and remain silent instead of getting help.

Re:U.S. transition to 988 suicide and crisis lifeline begins... by stemlord on Saturday July 16, 2022 @07:34PM (#32122928)
I think the type of background check necessary for something so life-critical like piloting commercial airliners should be considered distinctly different from the kind that any other normal job should involve
Re:U.S. transition to 988 suicide and crisis lifeline begins... by zahma on Saturday July 16, 2022 @07:57PM (#32123058)
I am a Crisis Text Line volunteer. So the short answer is yes we do call EMS when we have to. I posted this longer answer in a different parent on this thread, but I'll re-post it since it directly speaks to your question and sheds some light on the criteria we use to determine if someone might harm themselves.

"...We are trained to risk assess each and every texter, irrespective of our intuition about their mental state. That means I treat someone testing the system like I would someone who has been flagged as an imminent suicide risk.

Supervisors monitor this evolution of the conversation closely.

The assessment is important because ultimately the decision to call emergency services comes after that rigorous assessment of the person's suicidal ideation, followed by their plan and access to means, as well as their timeline. If all those criteria are met, I contact my supervisor, and then we work on separation from means. If those criteria are not met, we continue the conversation accordingly.

I have personally walked numerous people back from the edge simply by talking to them and hearing them out; often times, texters deemed imminent risks are capable of staying safe that night after we have come up with a safety plan for them together. Calling EMS is truly a last resort and not an attempt to cast off responsibility.

In the cases when we do call emergency services, it is after we have exhausted all other options. It should be noted that access to geolocation is strictly limited to these supervisors, and in all likelihood is limited to a texter's phone number alone. It's not like they have a backdoor into AT&T, and the supervisor must make a call to emergency services directly. From what I can tell, very little information is given back to CTL. On occasion, I can see a timeline that EMS was dispatched but rarely do I ever learn about the outcome.

The success of the platform is that we can work with people to find them their own solutions. CTL was not a viable intermediary for calling 911."

I've volunteered nearly 300 hours, most of those were dead of night EST. I've spoken to several hundred people, and maybe a couple dozen have been flagged as imminent risk. Of those flags, I can count on one hand those who have required a call to EMS. Mostly, I'm able to come up with a safety plan with them and get them through the night.

Re:U.S. transition to 988 suicide and crisis lifeline begins... by TexanFeller on Saturday July 16, 2022 @08:17PM (#32123168)
Calling the authorities under _any_ circumstances where the person is not planning to harm anyone else is unacceptable. The way you talk seems to presume that all suicidal people are out of their mind and irrational and need to be protected from themselves, which allows you to rationalize neglecting respect for their bodily autonomy. My body, my choice. It’s a person’s goddamn right to make the choice whether it’s better for them to continue living or not. How can we call ourselves free persons if we’re not even in control of our own body?
Re:U.S. transition to 988 suicide and crisis lifeline begins... by zahma on Saturday July 16, 2022 @09:48PM (#32123676)
You're viewing this rather myopically. If someone texts us, we're operating under a valid presumption that they value their life, otherwise why text for help? We can't call EMS on someone we're unaware even exists.
Re:U.S. transition to 988 suicide and crisis lifeline begins... by TexanFeller on Saturday July 16, 2022 @11:30PM (#32124243)
My views are based on personal experience, so they may be biased, but they’re not ignorant. Years ago I was at the height of a decade of misery and spent months convincing myself that God and hell did not exist so that I would have the option of killing myself. I then spent months when I would decide every day whether I wanted to keep living. My life is top 1% awesome now, but if I had to go back knowing what I know now I don’t know that I would endure that suffering again to get where I am. Nor would I force anyone else to. Regular people can’t imagine the level of suffering someone contemplating suicide is experiencing. I’ve talked to a number of acquaintances contemplating suicide since then and I’ve made a point of never telling them it’s wrong. I offer my friendship and support to make sure their feelings are not from lack of that, but I also give them advice on what to do instead if what they’re planning is unnecessarily painful. To my knowledge they’re all still alive and don’t think I’m a jerk for not telling them it’s wrong to do it.
Re:U.S. transition to 988 suicide and crisis lifeline begins... by zahma on Sunday July 17, 2022 @10:08AM (#32126888)
I respect your position on autonomy and letting people control their bodies. However, I am not sure if I personally am prepared to take it to this extreme. It's not how I was raised, and something is deeply unsettling to me to be a part of such a destructive action. I need to think on it some more.

No counselor on CTL will say it's wrong to end his/her life. That's because one of the core values is to treat each person without judgement (on any issue they bring up, from abuse, to self-image, to drama with parents, to rape).

For example, if someone says "I am having thoughts about suicide." No counselor would respond, "Oh that's awful, you shouldn't be having those. What's wrong with you?"

Or if someone says, "I just don't see the point in life anymore." No counselor would respond with, "Oh well life is sacrosanct and you're lucky to be here, so how could you possibly think about killing yourself? Your pain can't be that bad -- just think about your family who will be so sad."

These tropes are obviously harmful in a therapeutic setting, and the judgement is so counterproductive to keeping people engaged and finding solutions within themselves, which is key because we are not authorized to act in a medical capacity or advise people on what to do.

I have had many conversations with people who are clearly in lasting and profound pain and who just don't want to continue. Chats such as these are probably the hardest to endure because some people are just so resigned to their misery, and major depression just can't be treated by text. I'd give them a hug, but well...

I just want to end on a bitter note that while it seems like a lot of growth has happened in treating mental health, unfortunately many services have gotten a bad rap or are viewed suspiciously for the fact that previous generations of healthcare workers and society writ large did not give credit to the pain and difficulty in surmounting these conditions. It is a very dark morning in America, and we must be willing to listen to and validate each other's pain. CTL is one such location where that is possible.

Re:U.S. transition to 988 suicide and crisis lifeline begins... by TexanFeller on Sunday July 17, 2022 @12:44PM (#32128411)
Thank you for the thoughtful reply, I see what you’re aiming for is admirable and something a lot of thought was put into. I think where you might be kidding yourselves is on the passing judgment aspect. You may not verbally express judgment, but what is calling the police without someone’s consent other than passing judgment on what they’re doing?
Re:U.S. transition to 988 suicide and crisis lifeline begins... by Sam_Odio on Saturday July 16, 2022 @05:28PM (#32122139)
This is an special problem for the uninsured that struggle with mental health.

A close friend struggled with bipolar. She was uninsured and making close to minimum wage…calls to suicide prevention hotlines resulted in thousands of dollars in new bills from ER visits and even involuntary psychiatric care.

She was struggling to pay rent. Being discharged in effectively the same condition as before but with new debt she wouldn’t be able to pay off for years…the medical bills for involuntary psychiatric care were their own special sort of crazy.

See https://ajp.psychiatryonline.org/doi/10.1176/appi.ajp.2020.2...

Re:U.S. transition to 988 suicide and crisis lifeline begins... by tyingq on Saturday July 16, 2022 @04:23PM (#32121613)
Some of that is on the FAQ page: https://www.samhsa.gov/find-help/988/faqs

Will 988 calls be referred to 911?

Currently, a small percentage of Lifeline calls require activation of the 911 system when there is imminent risk to someone’s life that cannot be reduced during the Lifeline call. In these cases, the crisis counselor shares information with 911 that is crucial to saving the caller’s life.

So it does sound like that can happen. Though I don't know what else they could reasonably do if it sounds like the caller is imminently going to do serious self-harm.

Re:U.S. transition to 988 suicide and crisis lifeline begins... by colechristensen on Saturday July 16, 2022 @04:34PM (#32121703)
This is likewise true of any human interaction. It’s not like they’re going to promise to never refer a situation to emergency services.
Re:U.S. transition to 988 suicide and crisis lifeline begins... by myself248 on Saturday July 16, 2022 @04:25PM (#32121630)
Yup. A friend related a similar story to me.

Having some counselors stop by or something, might be cool, but the police are basically the opposite of that, at least today, at least in most places. I can't imagine a worse sequence of events to kick off.

Re:U.S. transition to 988 suicide and crisis lifeline begins... by colechristensen on Saturday July 16, 2022 @04:33PM (#32121694)
You don’t hear about the police interventions that go well.
Re:U.S. transition to 988 suicide and crisis lifeline begins... by least on Saturday July 16, 2022 @04:49PM (#32121829)
By most accounts, the sequence of committing suicide has much worse outcomes for the individual than forceful intervention by police.
Re:U.S. transition to 988 suicide and crisis lifeline begins... by myself248 on Monday July 18, 2022 @12:32PM (#32140182)
You say that like there's a difference.

The first person I know who committed suicide, did so after being arrested for something that shouldn't have even been illegal. But the ordeal into which he was plunged by law enforcement was too much to handle. He was very stressed out by the shame of being in the newspaper and such, but nobody realized the degree until it was too late.

The second, too. Different details but overall similar scenario; he wrote of the feeling of being ground up by this massive machine.

Want to make someone feel hopeless, start by sending police in place of counselors.

I only know two people who've committed suicide. So that's not a great track record for police making things better.

Re:U.S. transition to 988 suicide and crisis lifeline begins... by least on Tuesday July 19, 2022 @06:59AM (#32149857)
> You say that like there's a difference.

There is a difference. Actively preventing someone from committing suicide, taking them from the absolute brink of destruction, is the first step towards recovery. Intervention works.

> The first person I know who committed suicide, did so after being arrested for something that shouldn't have even been illegal. But the ordeal into which he was plunged by law enforcement was too much to handle. He was very stressed out by the shame of being in the newspaper and such, but nobody realized the degree until it was too late.

I'm sorry to hear that, but that's entirely non sequitur to my point.

> Want to make someone feel hopeless, start by sending police in place of counselors.

Intervention by police to prevent someone actively trying to kill himself results in better outcomes for the person than the person actually killing himself. Or it could be firefighters. Or a random passerby. Police are sent because they are what is available.

Re:U.S. transition to 988 suicide and crisis lifeline begins... by PragmaticPulp on Saturday July 16, 2022 @04:38PM (#32121744)
> It’s said they often cal the police who stop you by force and often make your life even worse than it was.

I asked a friend who volunteers for one of these hotlines. He says it's actually rare and the guidelines are more about people are in imminent danger to themselves or others (e.g. threatening suicide by a method that would endanger other people in the process, or worse, implying threats of hurting other people or inducing suicide by cop).

Definitely not the common or standard outcome, though.

Re:U.S. transition to 988 suicide and crisis lifeline begins... by yellowapple on Saturday July 16, 2022 @07:13PM (#32122813)
> or worse, implying threats of hurting other people or inducing suicide by cop

"What's this? The caller intends to commit suicide by cop? Surely sending cops to kick down his door will put a stop to that!"

Re:U.S. transition to 988 suicide and crisis lifeline begins... by specialist on Sunday July 17, 2022 @10:57AM (#32127367)
SWAT showed up to my house, looking for a suicidal person, who may have had a gun. Wrong address.

Fortunately, I only had to walk out into the middle of my street in my PJs. Sadly, my biggest concern was some trigger happy lunatic would kill my new dog, imaging a hyperactive doodle puppy as a vicious cop killing hellhound.

I'm still a little fuzzy on why a health check requires a paramilitary response. Wouldn't it be safer and cheaper to have some sweet little old lady with a clip board knock on my door?

Re:U.S. transition to 988 suicide and crisis lifeline begins... by takenpilot on Saturday July 16, 2022 @04:11PM (#32121507)
This is true, actually. A good friend of mine disappeared for a while because of this. The story he told me about the experience afterward was wild.
Re:U.S. transition to 988 suicide and crisis lifeline begins... by wolverine876 on Saturday July 16, 2022 @04:48PM (#32121827)
We're spreading FUD about even a suicide prevention hotline? This is going way too far. Someone who needs help might not get it.