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Re:Many single Japanese people in their 20s have never been ... by annyeonghada on Wednesday June 15, 2022 @01:50PM (#31756625)
>Actually talking to the opposite sex even in a casual way is a really good way to get over this type of thinking.

Talking to the sex you're attracted to will result, at best, in what people of that sex think they want, not what they actually want and do to get it, at worst, in some unempathetic platitude or even outright insults.

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Re:Many single Japanese people in their 20s have never been ... by IE6 on Wednesday June 15, 2022 @03:17PM (#31757977)
> to the sex you're attracted

Yes, it's not what I typed but this is what I meant. I think from there it's just the normal process of getting to know people. Much better than seeing it as a transaction and a push/pull of low-value and high-value system.

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