Thank HN: Five months ago, I was feeling like a loser, now I am opposite

Re:Thank HN: Five months ago, I was feeling like a loser, no... by azinman2 on Tuesday June 14, 2022 @04:29AM (#31736180)

All the more reason to listen to GP. Your partner should be someone to lean on, not blame. They likely don’t see them in the right light.

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Re:Thank HN: Five months ago, I was feeling like a loser, no... by tsol on Tuesday June 14, 2022 @06:55AM (#31737114)

I'm not sure what this really means in practice, though. Going to them for support is an entirely different thing than feeling distressed that they are insisting on a major life change you disagree with. I don't think it'd be healthier to always agree with them. They're an independent mind, it's inevitable you will butt heads every once in a while

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Re:Thank HN: Five months ago, I was feeling like a loser, no... by martopix on Tuesday June 14, 2022 @07:38AM (#31737616)

For example, the OP seems to know (he writes it in the post) that he was fighting with his wife because he was generally stressed. It would be interesting to know if, once he had this realisation after changing jobs, he actually sat down and told his wife "you know, I'm sorry for how I was with you. I was unhappy and I poured it on you. Did you realise it back then? What can we do to make it better next time? Thank you for bearing with me."

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Re:Thank HN: Five months ago, I was feeling like a loser, no... by nomoreusernames on Tuesday June 14, 2022 @11:35AM (#31741027)

best comment.

not just thanks but get her a gift too. something that requires you to put in an effort that she sees and understands.

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