Re:Thank HN: Five months ago, I was feeling like a loser, no...
by corrral on Monday June 13, 2022 @09:48PM
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> that's a fair point and that's not what i meant.
Apologies for the misunderstanding, then. Agree that keeping one's partner "in the loop", especially early on [edit: early on in seeking help for something, that is, not early on in the relationship], is generally advisable.
partners should be supportive of each other and they should work together to solve problems. but a solution can include bringing in outside help.
the point is that any approach to solve a problem starts with looking at that problem with your partner and together deciding the next steps