A lot of the other posts kinda miss one obvious solution. Yes you can “charge” for your stuff. I’ve learned not to even try doing work stuff for friends - “yeah you probably can’t afford what I’m gonna charge” kinda answer.

But if its trivial stuff - setup windows, wifi, help moving house etc. I’m more than happy to help, thats what friends are for. The trick is to _also ask about stuff in return_. I’m terrible at picking clothes, so I ask female friends who’s taste I trust to help me pick stuff for me. Things like that.

Asking for help is what builds bonds and friendships, and then whatever they ask of you wouldn’t feel unpleasant.

Just don’t do work stuff :-D