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Re:Restarting my career after motherhood by foogazi on Sunday June 05, 2022 @03:46PM (#31634228)
> one fully parenting, one fully working

Fully working = 8-10 hours a day

Still leaves a lot of time for parenting- and doesn’t seem so extreme, I’d say it’s one of the most common division of family life in the world

Re:Restarting my career after motherhood by tetromino_ on Monday June 06, 2022 @08:17AM (#31639524)
8-10 hours per day, plus another 1-3 hours for commute. Baby wakes up at 6:30, takes a bath and gets sleepy at 18:30 - so 12 hours of interactive time (not counting night-time feeding and crying) - and these 12 hours closely correspond to the fully-working parent's work and commute hours.
Re:Restarting my career after motherhood by foogazi on Monday June 06, 2022 @10:53PM (#31649352)
Yes, but then the working parent comes back and can parent

I didn’t say parenting only takes 8-10 hours. That’s the time the working parent works

That still leaves time to parent when off-work

Re:Restarting my career after motherhood by MacsHeadroom on Sunday June 05, 2022 @07:14PM (#31635723)
8-10 hours a day, plus continuing education, networking, mentorship relationships, etc. ton not fall behind.