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Re:Restarting my career after motherhood by pavel_lishin on Sunday June 05, 2022 @02:45PM (#31633722)
> Why is at always the mothers who choose to be stay-at-home mothers, and very rarely fathers

Because on average, fathers tend to make more than mothers. That's not the only calculation, but it's a big one.

Re:Restarting my career after motherhood by mmcnl on Sunday June 05, 2022 @03:25PM (#31634054)
Why don't the father and mother both work less? I.e. 4 days (32 hours) instead of 5 days (40 hours). As long as this is not common practice, combined with expensive or inaccessible daycare, women will always face more difficulties in their career. There's no biological justification for this, instead it's entirely the result of cultural conventions and political decisions. I think we should recognize this, because if we don't, gender equality will be out of reach in the near future.
Re:Restarting my career after motherhood by pavel_lishin on Sunday June 05, 2022 @03:48PM (#31634242)
> Why don't the father and mother both work less?

Because not every employer would allow this.

Re:Restarting my career after motherhood by mmcnl on Sunday June 05, 2022 @03:58PM (#31634316)
That's the result of choices we, or our elected representatives, have made. There are other choices we can make.
Re:Restarting my career after motherhood by thrwy_meta on Sunday June 05, 2022 @09:15PM (#31636444)
>>>There's no biological justification for this

Do you have children? I'm father to a 16-month old. The first few months especially, our daughter would not go to sleep unless my wife held her. No amount of compassion on my part could overcome the ingrained link a newborn has with its mother.

You are basically arguing that new mothers can have their babies ripped from their arms while they get shackled to their cubicle, and that this will have no negative impacts on the child's development......all in the pursuit of "equality"? This strikes me as....misguided.

Re:Restarting my career after motherhood by analog31 on Sunday June 05, 2022 @02:54PM (#31633803)
That was the case in my family. Similar backgrounds, 2x salary difference.