I've really enjoyed playing Downwell[0], which tangentially covers a lot of these points. I've also enjoyed FTL[1] and Into the Breach[2] (both made by the same people) because of the time crunch aspect and irreversibility of your actions, respectively.

[0] https://www.downwellgame.com/

[1] https://subsetgames.com/ftl.html

[2] https://subsetgames.com/itb.html