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Re:I stopped to watch kids playing at recess – security was ... by creakingstairs on Thursday May 12, 2022 @07:04PM (#31361150)
On the contrary, I’d love to talk about a spicy topic. Only if the person isn’t too invested/serious about it though. E.g they can disagree gracefully and can entertain all angles
Re:I stopped to watch kids playing at recess – security was ... by HWR_14 on Thursday May 12, 2022 @09:37PM (#31362254)
>Only if the person isn’t too invested/serious about it though

. Wow, I'm the opposite. I don't mind discussing a spicy topic, but only if the person actually gives a shit about it. I have no desire to be trolled IRL by someone wanting to be edgy. If someone is serious and polite about it, I'll discuss any topic.

Re:I stopped to watch kids playing at recess – security was ... by creakingstairs on Thursday May 12, 2022 @11:43PM (#31363065)
I agree that talking to people who don’t give a shit at all aren’t fun talking to.

I wanted to say I don’t like discussing spicy topics with people who give too much shit and are inflexible because at that point discussion can turn personal or can feel like them venting.

Re:I stopped to watch kids playing at recess – security was ... by HWR_14 on Friday May 13, 2022 @10:15AM (#31367918)
Oh, yeah. We seem to agree.

Although I allow friends to vent inflexibly. But that's a different type of conversation done for their benefit.