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Re:Ask HN: Getting back into the working world with a negati... by F_J_H on Wednesday October 19, 2011 @10:29AM (#3130281)
Another suggestion to consider. Try not to use "but" because it is a flag that you are about to discount what you just said. Here's an alternative to the above, where you simply replace "but" with "and". (Also note saying why you like something really helps too.)

"Yes, I like that because it would help with X, and have you have you considered the cost?"

Usually "but" can be replaced with "and" fairly smoothly. However, if not, you can do something like:

"Yes, I like that because it would help with X. I wonder how much it would cost, both for the licenses and for the effort?"

Re:Ask HN: Getting back into the working world with a negati... by SoftwarePatent on Wednesday October 19, 2011 @10:33AM (#3130303)
oops, listen to F_J_H! The improv phrase is "yes, and" not "yes, but".