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Re:Teen mental health is plummeting and social media is a ma... by silisili on Thursday May 05, 2022 @01:50AM (#31269994)
We have different parenting styles, and that's OK. I hope your children turn out wonderfully.

I want for my child to have a bigger playground, so to speak. Reading books, playing with kids outside, bothering our neighbors constantly to pet and play with their dogs, making dandelion necklaces, etc. When she's on her phone she just zombies out, and it's like watching a device suck the soul from such a warm and extroverted person.

Things will change with time, but for now, I want her to appreciate and enjoy being a kid. The time for 8 hour screen days can wait.

Re:Teen mental health is plummeting and social media is a ma... by jay_kyburz on Thursday May 05, 2022 @02:25AM (#31270204)
Yes! Last year when I was pulling all the Ivy from my yard we demolished the back fence and the neighborhood kids were always in our backyard. The sound of the trampoline springs was like alarm. "Come out and play!"

Perhaps one differences is my kids don't have phones at all. No social media. My kids screens are tools for creativity and interactivity. PC's. There is not much zombie face.

Update: Oh also, its very social. After the home schooling in the lockdown, the kids have all their school friends in discord and google chat. There is lots of chatting and laughing and the occasional augment. (which is all part of learning)

Re:Teen mental health is plummeting and social media is a ma... by watwut on Thursday May 05, 2022 @02:44AM (#31270334)
You cant play with other kids outside when you are isolated from other kids or when they organize outside play on platform you are not allowed to use. And when all other kids have X and you dont have X, the experience of playing together is experience of not really belonging among them.
Re:Teen mental health is plummeting and social media is a ma... by diogenescynic on Thursday May 05, 2022 @09:54AM (#31273359)
>And when all other kids have X and you dont have X, the experience of playing together is experience of not really belonging among them.

On the other hand, it's probably a good skill to form to learn how to adapt when others have something you do not. Other people having access to more resources is something that you deal with your entire life.