Re:Limb lengthening surgery is becoming more popular
by iamacyborg on Sunday May 01, 2022 @02:43AM
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I’m also 5’5 and don’t really have this problem. I was upfront about my height on dating sites back when I used them and a few women mentioned it was a dealbreaker but that also never stopped me from getting plenty of matches and going on a lot of dates.
Re:Limb lengthening surgery is becoming more popular
by gnulinux on Sunday May 01, 2022 @05:57PM
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These anecdote-based "it's not that bad" comments are very misguided. Even the OP article clearly points out statistically even small differences like 5'7 vs 5'8 make huge differences and something like 5'6 to 6'0 can have 200x difference.
This is by no means "fine" seeing (1) finding a romantic partner is one of the most important determiners of mental health (2) youth today is going through a huge social isolation crisis. If you're short you're seen (not explicitly, but through statistical regression to the mean) as a lesser person.
I think it's absolutely crucial to understand this is not "fine" and compansate accordingly. This seems like the responsible truth to me.
Re:Limb lengthening surgery is becoming more popular
by beowulfey on Sunday May 01, 2022 @01:55AM
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Yes at the very least it’s important not to hide it because it acts as a great filter for those who do care about it (which I’ve never been bitter about either—we all have preferences in attractiveness)
Re:Limb lengthening surgery is becoming more popular
by hackerfromthefu on Monday May 02, 2022 @06:55AM
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I think also a lot of woman feel more comfortable or safer with a man around that height.
I don't really have any advice, but I really don't think your height is limiting you. Don't get me wrong, it's definitely harder than if you were six inches taller, but it's not that bad.
It's one factor of many that affects your overall attractiveness and many people don't care about it at all.