That is not true. SELinux is not hard to understand nor change. Most of the issues you might encounter are simply solved by changing a label in a file or directory. It is just not straightforward to debug and understand if you don't know it is there. I think most people who complain about it are multi distros/OS users and just only realize after losing precious time that an issue is selinux related.
Otherwise you are blindly applying some black box.
https://linux.die.net/man/8/httpd_selinux
It's a tad dense, but in the Sharing Files you can find a section explaining what context is used and for what. You can also look at the existing context, eg:
$ ls -laZ /var/www
total 4
drwxr-xr-x. 4 root root system_u:object_r:httpd_sys_content_t:s0 33 mar 17 17:32 .
drwxr-xr-x. 21 root root system_u:object_r:var_t:s0 4096 abr 18 10:57 ..
drwxr-xr-x. 2 root root system_u:object_r:httpd_sys_script_exec_t:s0 6 mar 17 17:32 cgi-bin
drwxr-xr-x. 2 root root system_u:object_r:httpd_sys_content_t:s0 6 mar 17 17:32 html
And copy those for your own use.That shows the list of what labels are allowed to do what to which labels, so run ps -Z to get the label of your process and grep the sesearch output for it, and that will tell you what labels it's allowed to interact with and in what ways.
selinux is generally pretty straightforward, but it has a reputation for being impenetrable which puts people of trying to learn it.
Security by obscurity is worse than none at all. Security by buying an "Enterprise" product is worse than that.
What SELinux says is "real MAC security is super complicated, but don't worry we've taken care of all that for you, but you can't understand it or change anything". What I say is "easy peasy; if you access the machine you're root. Make sure that either it doesn't happen or it doesn't matter".