Re:Tell HN: Turned 44 today and I'm lost
by ajmurmann on Thursday April 14, 2022 @01:03PM
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Selfish question to sharing such intimately: what are you doing to meet new people?
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Re:Tell HN: Turned 44 today and I'm lost
by miltonlaxer on Thursday April 14, 2022 @01:19PM
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I started by reconnecting with anyone I could. Many of them are not people that I would previously consider being friends with (hence why we stopped talking). This isn't a great solution but it might put you in good situations.
Try going to social settings like downtown and not think too much about how "These are not my type of people" or "I don't want to be out partying all the time". You have to go out and approach people to meet new friends. It's uncomfortable and awkward. You'll get rejected and need to brush it off. I've even considered going out solo and just walking around and enjoying myself.