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Re:Sex parties and polyamory in Silicon Valley by bryanrasmussen on Friday April 08, 2022 @10:45AM (#30957521)
Reading through this, I imagined writing a comedic novel romance where the protagonist ends up at a sex party with tech tycoon Jack Buckerzerg, ends up having something forgettable, but then can't forget it because of the deluge of connect us requests from his multi billion dollar social app FriendHook, it's sort of a cross between You've Got Mail, Russian Doll, and hopefully at the end, a slasher film.

None of the people discussed in this post are based on actual people - whether living or horribly lifelike simulacra.

Re:Sex parties and polyamory in Silicon Valley by PaulHoule on Friday April 08, 2022 @10:50AM (#30957621)
Yeah there isn't any "free love" as in "free beer" but rather "sex work" driven by some people having way too much money.

(I got into a big argument with a person I was, and maybe am, involved in a love triangle with who thinks that most of the the time "having an affair" is really prostitution in disguise.)

Re:Sex parties and polyamory in Silicon Valley by heavenlyblue on Friday April 08, 2022 @12:05PM (#30958930)
What differentiates prostitution and casual sex apart from uhm, payment for services? But even then one could say that in casual sex you're just bartering each others attraction for sex. What is prostitution then? Trading sex with someone who has less of everything apart money?
Re:Sex parties and polyamory in Silicon Valley by PaulHoule on Friday April 08, 2022 @02:11PM (#30960583)
From the viewpoint of the individual there are different motivations to have sex. Prostitution doesn't satisfy all of them.

From the viewpoint of society prostitution might seem OK in principle but in practice there are safety problems that bring in organized crime and problems with human trafficking that never go away. The market for legal prostitution in Nevada is a lot like the market for legal weed in California, just a pimple on top of a large illegal business.

In 2022 we may be at the nadir of impoverished philosophy. In particular sectors of the "left" try to link "sex work" to "female empowerment" which brings us way back to the concept of alienation from the early Marx. That is, money ruins everything.

We need better ways to think about it. Scale is one of them. When you have 10,000 guys simping to one camgirl you've got a problem. It's going to take a while before it is widely recognized that OnlyFans is more dangerous than traditional pornography. In the meantime the left has to discover some alternatives to neoliberalism.