Re:Ask HN: Hybrid/Remote software team rituals
by closeparen on Friday April 08, 2022 @12:31PM
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Interesting, we’ve found unstructured conversation pretty much impossible on Zoom. No one liked the open ended happy hours, so they stopped. Games actually got people talking.
Re:Ask HN: Hybrid/Remote software team rituals
by jh0486 on Monday April 11, 2022 @09:23AM
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If common interests aren't found during the unstructured conversation, the manager should be probing for commonalities during 1:1s and using them to spark the conversation. Once the conversations start happening, they will snowball from there. Like anything, sometimes it needs an icebreaker.
Re:Ask HN: Hybrid/Remote software team rituals
by BKirkpatrick on Friday April 08, 2022 @11:25AM
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I couldn't agree more and funny enough I created a conversation app at frenemy.live that helps with just this.
One of the rituals on my team that has stuck for years is an hour block every two weeks for the team to simply talk. No plan, no forced games or activities, only conversation. It gives us a chance to learn about each other freely. No discussion (within reason) is off the table; we talk about anything from food to astrophysics.
Unstructured conversation has been the only thing that consistently keeps people excited that it's on the calendar. It's a chance for everyone to see the authentic side of their teammates and learn who they are.