If someone “asks” me to do something, they usually don’t mean “otherwise I will take your money and/or jail you”. But all laws have that threat, otherwise they wouldn’t mean anything. Hence why I take issue with saying the govt is “asking” us to do something - even though that thing is good and honorable, it’s still not an “ask”.
*well, I mean, there’s probably mountain turnip preservation zones or something, where it would prohibit me from farming mountain turnips.
Using the force of government is, or should be, a serious affair, and I think we water it down by using language like “they’re just asking”, etc. The force of government never “just asks” - when Trump was deporting people, no one (reputable) said they were “asked to leave”.
That sense of seriousness about government force would help us see clearly what is, and is not, worth bringing government into.
Move to the mountains and farm turnips.
If you mean "how do I avoid complying with laws while still participating in polite society," you're right, that one you can't do.