The key question to ask yourself is "how does this benefit my kids?"
For the people planning to get married, understand that 50% of marriages end up in divorce of separation, and the median duration is about 8 years. You usually not have much to win by getting married. Plus, divorce rates tend to go up.
If you are already married and plan to stay married, watch this video. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eyty0xb7IMM
His story is more common than what many may think as many women believe she can get full custody by accusing the man of violence or abuse. And too many drain family finances on a lottery bid for that even when there is concrete proof she lies.
This is not an appropriate topic to bring a cartoonish ideology that selectively amplify and dampen the pain it sees based upon unchosen traits.
It’s very common that a man end up with little time with the kids as the family court system is stuck on 1950s assumption around the woman being a housewife, and because a woman usually marry up also a huge bill every month. I’ve seen people driven near bankruptcy from it.
This is a great podcast for those unaware of how dangerous it is when your family enters the family court system
https://youtu.be/9S60kJA6tic