The dressing can be given on the side. This is also a personal choice.
Salads can be pretty good, if they're loaded with vegetables. You can get those at places that specialize in salad, and maybe even Subway. But the "side salads" that you get at fast food restaurants, while better than a burger and fries, aren't very good.
As you say, personal choice. But a decent diet consists of avoiding fast food restaurants most of the time. If you have to, make the the best choice you can, but be aware that lettuce isn't magic health food.
It doesn't act like a video game power-up. It just provides adequate nutrition without overdoing any one aspect. It fills you up without giving you too many calories (the main thing that people overeat).
Though really, I think it's unlikely you'll have a salad that's higher in calories than a burger and fries.
Sometimes the salads are less healthy than the alternative at fast food restaurants because of the dressing and portion sizes they give.