Well maybe you guys are one of the rare sufferers of actual side effects/allergies and shouldn't get the vaccine, assuming any of the above is related to the vaccine and there weren't other medical issues going on. Or if there were maybe said medical issues interact negatively with the vaccine and should be accounted for.

That said all vaccines have side effects for some populations. There a reason why when you get your flu shot they ask you if you've had any previous bad reactions to flu shots. That doesn't make the flu shot or any vaccine a bad bet, sometimes you bet with 99% odds and end up the 1%.

hundreds of millions of people were vaccinated. shouldn't the hospitals be full of stroke victims if those two things are related?

if you don't want to get vaccinated, don't. no need for poorly reasoned rationalizations

I probably didn't give enough detail but it's very clear to myself these issues were vax related.

how? think about how many people have been vaccinated. if it caused strokes or severe respiratory illness there would be ample evidence of that by now. it wouldn't just be this or that relative. think about even 1/10th of 1% of 200 million people having a stroke within the same time period. you think nobody would notice that?

Heart attack, stroke, and blood clots were massively up among all ages in 2021, even compared to 2020

Lots of parents said the same thing about MMR vaccines causing autism in their kids. But we know after decades of massive studies that it wasn't true.