Re 2nd statement, this is a true, but it fulfils the wrong goal and has a wrong implication. I'm not trying to "find a romantic partner fast", I'm looking to find a compatible partner, and I don't think the strategy you proposed is a good one for the traits I'm looking for. Also, it seems like you're suggesting to do that instead of posting a public profile instead of in addition, so, for the explanation to be complete, it's insufficient to say why your proposed approach is good, and also requires to say why my proposed approach is bad.