This is pretty obvious in the general case, where it would be impossible for me to know if the URL I am visiting contains information about my particular user agent and is thus inappropriate to share with people with other user agents. When my user agent requests "en.wikipedia.org" and receives a redirect to "en.m.wikipedia.org" there's simply no way to know whether this resource has actually moved to a new URL (which is the semantics of the HTTP response) or whether this is simply a special URL that I shouldn't share. Yes, some people might be familiar with the "m." subdomain for mobile-specific websites, but in general this sort of thing is (in my opinion) an abuse of HTTP redirects.
As I just pointed out, and you somehow misunderstood, this is the exact behavior of the mobile page. It is not the behavior of the standard page. But sharing a link to the mobile page is bad, and sharing a link to the standard page is good. Keep this in mind when you're deciding how URLs should behave.
This is how mobile wikipedia pages behave. What part of that do you disagree with?
Share a mobile page's URL and the person following your link will see the same page you do, no matter what your user-agent is, no matter what their user-agent is, no matter what device you're using, no matter what device they're using.
This is the problem. The behavior you are looking for, of different people seeing different content according to their user-agent, is also provided, and it's provided by the standard page.
And I would argue that this is not only the point but the problem we are talking about. It makes the m. pages appear all over the Internet although they are less suitable for some devices (they are, I'd argue, even less usable because, e.g., the page history is missing when you are not logged in).
The use case is: I go to the standard wikipedia page, browse a bit, and then I want to give out links to the standard wikipedia page of a specifig article.
This is currently not possible without editing the URL if you are on mobile. And I dont understand why wikipedia is refusing to fix this.