A man stealing your cat converter infringes not just on your property, he's possibly making you unable to go to work tomorrow, unable to pay your rent next week and putting you to the streets. If I was in a situation where the livelihood of my family depended on a piece of property I would definitely kill to defend it.
And by definition anyone in drone weapon blast radius is enemy combatant.
In USA.
Based on the definitions I can find of murder in various dictionaries, it seems almost universally defined as an unlawful act. If you choose to go by the commonly-accepted usage of the term, it would not be a murder if the killing is found to be lawful. There are other words, such as homicide, that could be used here [1, 2]. The CPS themselves (in the UK) have a whole page about this distinction.
[1] https://www.cps.gov.uk/legal-guidance/homicide-murder-and-ma...
[2] https://murphylawoffice.org/john-murphy-law-office-blog/77-w...
And calling indiscriminately killing people "a foreign policy" and legal is another can of USA made worms.
Check out how narratives created and pushed by evil people affected your moral sense.
That's not how it works in most first world places. You can't murder a person to protect property.