Divorce does funny things

Re:Divorce does funny things by Jensson on Tuesday November 16, 2021 @06:30AM (#29239355)

Cheating on a spouse has nothing to do with deception, it only becomes deception if they don't tell their spouse about it afterwards. If a person did cheat on their spouse and told their spouse about it then that is a sign to me that I can trust what the person say. I wont be able to trust that they can control themselves in the moment, but at least I'll trust that they will tell me about important things.

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Re:Divorce does funny things by merpnderp on Tuesday November 16, 2021 @07:25AM (#29239713)

So you wouldn’t be angry if they screwed you in a business deal by lying to you as long as they told you about it after the damage was done? The only way a cheater could be ethical about cheating is to inform their spouse about it before it happens and give them an opportunity to approve, divorce, or discuss.

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Re:Divorce does funny things by varjag on Tuesday November 16, 2021 @06:46AM (#29239463)

I believe not telling is overwhelmingly default mode when people bring up the issue of cheating. Have no objections to your point otherwise.

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