Ask HN: As an introvert/ambivert, how can I reap benefits from social events?

Re:Ask HN: As an introvert/ambivert, how can I reap benefits... by quickthrower2 on Tuesday November 16, 2021 @04:48AM (#29238722)

Maybe reframe it? Networking event isn’t about being social. It’s where you can learn interesting thinks about other peoples careers.

And if it gets too much, “sorry I gotta call my boss” is a believable excuse to get out of anything you find awkward or if you’ve had enough. Knowing you have that parachute might make it easier.

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Re:Ask HN: As an introvert/ambivert, how can I reap benefits... by phekunde on Tuesday November 16, 2021 @03:22PM (#29245912)

> ...learn interesting thinks about other peoples careers.

This is a very good approach.

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Re:Ask HN: As an introvert/ambivert, how can I reap benefits... by el_dev_hell on Tuesday November 16, 2021 @06:02PM (#29247363)

> And if it gets too much, “sorry I gotta call my boss” is a believable excuse to get out of anything you find awkward or if you’ve had enough. Knowing you have that parachute might make it easier.

Unless this is true, I don't think that's a great idea.

Don't be pathetic and lie. Be honest. What's wrong with saying "Sorry $NEW_PERSON, I have to go. It was great to meet you."

If you're interested in the negative effects of "white lies" I'd recommend picking up Lying by Sam Harris.

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