People who wish to live in areas of three story multi-family structures that fill the lot should be able to find or make places where that’s legal and the predominant style, I agree. (I’m opposed to the effective exclusion of that via pervasive 1/2 family zoning.) Equally, people who don’t want to live like that should be able to find or make places where detached 1-3 family buildings that don’t fill the lot are legal and the predominant style. (I’m opposed to zoning laws/changes that prohibit these neighborhoods as well.)

Forcing everyone to live in what they consider an undesirable hellscape isn’t good policy in either direction.