Re:How Microsoft reduced Windows 11 update size by 40%
by sundvor on Thursday October 28, 2021 @05:05AM
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Off topic, but if you have young kids you might find yourself starting to say things like:
Soon you may be asked by friends why you sometimes speak of yourself in third person, long after the little one started understanding pronouns. You might also recover some sleep.
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Re:How Microsoft reduced Windows 11 update size by 40%
by have_faith on Thursday October 28, 2021 @06:28AM
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I hadn't really given the phenomenon much thought. You're essentially saying to the kid: you need to respect the "ideals" of what Dad represents and what a "Dad" in the abstract would expect of you in this situation. Sort of asserting your dominance through an appeal to a concept of an authority figure instead of you as an individual. Why is "I need to sleep now" potentially less effective?
Re:How Microsoft reduced Windows 11 update size by 40%
by japanuspus on Thursday October 28, 2021 @07:35AM
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Not OP -- but parent of three.
The primary reason for using specifics ("dad", <name of child>, <name of sibling>, ...) is that pronouns are one of the last things a child will pick up. Think about how a child will always hear themselves referred to as "you" -- and end up assuming that "you" is like a name form them and start using "you" instead of "I"/"me".
In reality, you will be using both specifics and pronouns, and often repeat the same sentence with both versions to teach that they are identical.
Re:How Microsoft reduced Windows 11 update size by 40%
by have_faith on Thursday October 28, 2021 @01:10PM
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Very interesting perspective, thanks! I have no kids but I'm the oldest of 4 siblings (all boys...).
Re:How Microsoft reduced Windows 11 update size by 40%
by sundvor on Thursday October 28, 2021 @08:01AM
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Thanks, you explained it perfectly!
Re:How Microsoft reduced Windows 11 update size by 40%
by croon on Thursday October 28, 2021 @05:17AM
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It also might happen that you call your wife "mom" with your friends, out of context from your kids.
Speaking for a friend, of course.
Re:How Microsoft reduced Windows 11 update size by 40%
by koheripbal on Thursday October 28, 2021 @07:16AM
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I love that there are so many Dad's on this site.