One of the traditional hacker values is personal agency - doing things because you like them, not to fit in or sell.

In general we need to take people at their word and not supply our own beliefs. We diminish ourselves when we minimize the agency of others.

You will have a difficult time navigating the real world if you approach public personas with such a trusting approach.

"I just want you to know I’m not a pedophile" Jeffrey Epstein

"I did not have sexual relations with that woman" Bill Clinton

"I'm a benevolent dictator." Harvey Weinstein

In my opinion, Wu is a public persona, too, because the majority of her income directly depends on the public's perception of her. Also, her influencer marketing with the Creality printer brand is probably conditioned on her presenting in a certain way. So regardless of whether she dresses that way for guys or for girls, I'd argue that my point still stands: She made a calculated decision to publicly present herself in that way and given that she appears to be highly intelligent, she was probably aware of the consequences (including male attention) beforehand.

In case this hasn't been explained to you yet: Someones fashion choices are not an excuse to behave inappropriately or give them unwanted advances. If she wants to dress that way and someone behaves inappropriately towards her, the issue isn't with her.