The community thrives by following guidelines, among them:
* be kind
* do not sneer
* do not call names
* respond to the strongest plausible interpretation of what someone says, not a weaker one that's easier to criticize
But can we at least recognise that there's an enormous distinction between criticism of people and criticism of ideas? In my estimation, when someone is calling for an idea to be protected from unkindness, or name-calling, or sneering, it's probably deserving of it.
However, by labelling the idea as nonsense, by extension I must be someone whose ideas are nonsense.
This lowers the level of discourse. To what end? What did labelling my idea as nonsense accomplish? Did it help your argument? Or was it to make me feel bad, or to make you feel good?
I certainly wouldn't say labelling an idea as "dumb" would be unethical, though. It's just not productive to having a conversation: name calling begets more name calling. It puts people on the defensive where they are not receptive to new ideas.
They're both? But agree with everything else
And with that you've just demonstrated my point. By focusing on an aesthetic component of my rhetoric rather than the substantive, you have chosen to steer this entire discussion away from the underlying topic.
> by extension I must be someone whose ideas are nonsense
That is nonsense. It does not follow.
> What did labelling my idea as nonsense accomplish?
It's my opinion. And while you're welcome to call that idea yours, I only consider it an idea. You shouldn't be so quick to tie your ideas to your identity. Everyone has lots of opinions and a good number of them are certain to be wrong.
But you are not someone who makes ill conceived, pedantic, or desperate arguments to save face. That would be nonsense. It does not follow. Don't be so quick to tie your identity to the pedantic arguments you've made.
* do not sneer
* do not call names
* respond to the strongest plausible interpretation of what someone says, not a weaker one that's easier to criticize