I wouldn't think of Black Swan events as tail events, so much as model failures or regime-changes. As in, 'we modeled this as a time-invariant gaussian distribution, but it's actually a mixture model where the second hidden mode was triggered in the aftermath of an asteroid strike that we didn't model for, because of course we didn't.'

In re, the arguey-person you were responding to, frequentist modeling is just as bad or worse for these sorts of situations.