So maybe you and your kids MIGHT be okay, but your grandkids and your great-grandkids? probably not.
No. Not sure where 1.41m is coming from. Take a closer look at the linked NASA site. You will need to click on the link labled "View global projection" (sorry, there isn't a direct link). You will see a graph labeled "Projected Sea-Level Rise Under Different SSP Scenarios". The midpoint highest rise of all seven of the scenarios for 2100 is just .88 meters and that's for the most pessimistic SSP5-8.5 Low Confidence scenario. The more likely scenarios are about 1-2 feet.
Your great-grandkids will be fine.
It looks like all model scenarios agree fairly well out to 2100 both in the global projections and in projections for Grand Isle. Thus, I’d wager good money that New Orleans will see 1-2m sea level rise by 2100 regardless of any climate mitigations we perform.
A very, very long time from now. According to the IPCC Sixth Assessment Report sea levels are projected to rise between .57 and 1.25 meters by 2120. So unless you have waves currently lapping against your back porch you, your kids, your grandkids and your great-grandkids will be OK in NO.
For context, sea levels have risen about .3 meters over the last hundred years and we have adapted without city evacuation and relocation.
https://sealevel.nasa.gov/ipcc-ar6-sea-level-projection-tool