I now open Discord exclusively with firefox.
I always have Discord, Element, VSCode (two windows), and two separate Chrome profiles running at the same time and I haven't seen it crash in weeks.
I have absolutely no experience with Electron development, and actually believed that the cross-platform thing was free (or almost). Again, at least for apps that don't need special functions that could be platform dependent.
Besides that, unlike java, nodejs don't bundle a lot of stdlibs by itself.(It don't even have a lib for manipulate images!) So you end up being required to use custom native modules for some specific tasks.(If no js alternative available)
The nodejs way is build yourself, so you will have the right one. But since it is a bundled electron program, it doesn't work and you need to prebuild it.
This is funny, considering it's an Electron app. They just didn't take the time to port, apparently.