That's a nice list of traits for a friend to have, but since a person will literally go insane if they don't have any human contact, I would advise finding better friends first before dumping the bad ones.
Also the list was me being too literary in describing the majority of these relationships, they answered the questions posed in the negative through and through, read: unhealthy relationships.
Like I have quite a few people I'll get together to play board games with, and I enjoy their company for that, but we don't do a whole lot outside of that (sometimes a dinner or a movie or go to a special event, but not too often).
I didn't spell it out clearly enough and got literary, but most of these relationships were condescending, disrespectful, and somewhat abusive, never mind lacking empathy. What your describing is something I actually should accede to in my local area with COVID restrictions somewhat breaking up and now being vaccinated.
I'd always had teachers in grammar and high school telling me directly or indirectly I was wasting my potential trying to be like the other kids but I only recently understand what they meant and what, more importantly, they saw that I didn't, but that's what a childhood of deep ostracizing both within and without one's family will do.
Much of this thought process has only been possible because I enrolled in therapy a few years before the pandemic. Prior to this I meandered around life with a desperate, pathetic cheerfulness that masked how alone I already was. Alone, not just on the basis of deep, meaningful companionship but that I hadn't at all cultivated being a friend and ally to myself, such that I allowed myself to take on friendships that were not good for my growth as person at all, rather caused me to regress to the same old childhood tropes and tactics time and time again, unable to address the real interpersonal complexity that requires a defined and resolved character to decide and navigate; I tried to be these other apparently successful types to have some social life rather saying NO to what I knew wasn't going to get me where I wanted to go and the kind of people I'd probably enjoy beyond inebriation and frat-level jokes.
What sucks though is that you spend so much time in these relationships you develop a sort of Stockholm Syndrome where the sense of "love" and "affinity" are really just "this is all I've ever known".
Rebuilding at a late age like myself is going to be tough, social media can be particular booby trap here I realize, but it seems necessary.