Re:Under the skin of OnlyFans
by thinkingemote on Tuesday July 20, 2021 @04:13PM
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Do you want your neighbors to be winners too?
If it's not a zero-sum game, sure. But there's plenty of different games in life, and humans are inherently social animals — even when we do not compare ourselves with others, others do. So, I don't want my neighbours to starve or die, but I do want my kids to be more successful than they are.
That strikes me as odd. There are some areas of life that have competition on them. I accept the fact that there are "losers" in life, but I want my kids to be "winners". I love my kids more than I love others, and want better things for them — who wouldn't?
(I specifically don't mention porn here, because I don't make a point about porn, but rather about being happy for other children to do something but not mine. Also, I put "winners" and "losers" in quotes because obviously it's a very primitive description of reality, and I actually don't think of sex workers as "losers").