If I were even close to FIRE, it would completely change my mindset. I'm only 9 years in (with relatively low-to-average pay). Maybe in 19 years, but even that's uncertain. It's also a lot harder to convince myself to stick it out for 19 years than if it were just 2 or 3.
I've done that waiting game a couple of times before, and regretted it both times.
Job market seems to be super hot right now. Turn on your LinkedIn 'open to work' switch and hopefully it'll be like me and your inbox will suddenly get swarmed with recruiters. I'm not even in a major tech market.
Ex. we have a team member that obviously lies about working. Not the results, literally what he does all day. He sets his status to available, logs into his VM (I guess he figured out we were collecting that information) and basically is being deceitful. Management is dragging its feet. This is a deal-breaker if not resolved.
I use it as an opportunity to reflect on the state of work and whether things are improving.