- Brandon Sanderson, Oathbringer
I don't know how far back in time it takes for a disconnect of 'who was I then to do that?' or 'I can't believe I did that' but sometimes I think back to recent things and get so embarrassed my face turns red and heats up.
Like Bill Burr sometimes I have to scream it out and wriggle to release the shame.
The simultaneous part is important, if your beliefs change and your actions change accordingly; that doesn't count as hypocrisy in my book.
> Be kind. Don't be snarky. Have curious conversation; don't cross-examine. Please don't fulminate. Please don't sneer, including at the rest of the community.
It looks like a lot of your grey comments did not follow this guideline. I see you've been here since 2018, but maybe nobody ever brought it up. This community is different from other places like reddit, and its partly because of these practices.
What catapulted it from silly to amusing was that the person you quoted is entirely unremarkable, known only for being in a group that made some of the worst "music" I have ever heard get regular radio play.
Why do you feel you need to ignore the substance of the quote and instead deflect it with cheap ad-hominem attacks?
The image you're conveying of yourself is that you're willing to forego discussing things rationally to instead focus your energy in petty persona attacks and deflections.
Changing your mind about something is a sign of open-mindedness, not lack of self-reflection
It seems to me that his personal journey granted him a privileged vantage point to talk about this topic, with more insight than the vast majority of people.
Clearly, if anyone did that exercise in self-reflection, it was him. Don't you agree?
And why is he, of all people, the one being singled out and required to meet all those high bars?